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Monday, April 18, 2005

Passion

Sharron just wrote a little something about what she may enjoy doing. Aymiee says she sometimes feels guilty about following what she enjoys. That's something that I'm familiar with. Having two children of my own and being a single father, sometimes I feel like I should cut out a majority of what I enjoy and am passionate about.

Here's a little post that touches on the subject:

occupational adventure

"MYTH: PURSUING YOUR PASSION IS SELFISH AND SELF-INDULGENT

Wrong. Pursuing your passion is quite possibly the best thing you could ever do for your loved ones.

Imagine the difference between someone who grinds through their day in a job that sucks the life out of them, and someone who actually gets energy from the work they do. Which one would you want to be around at the end of the day? Which one is going to be a better wife, husband, parent, friend?

The positive ripple effect on your family, on your co-workers, and even just random people you encounter is substantial."

The cool thing is when I share with my son what I've been doing he actually shows genuine interest. And really for the most part it's reciprocal. He loves to show me what he's working on and I'm definitly interested. I think long term things like that are relationship builders.

2 Comments:

At 11:49 AM , Blogger Aymiee said...

ok, Blogger commenting error again!!! My art instructor reminds me of that very same message everytime I tell her how guilty I am for pursuing my passions. So thanks posting another validation. Of course the best validation is seeing how proud my girl is of me. I'm sure your son feels the same of you. I believe it comes down to "balance".

When its mother and daughter time, I "try" really hard not to dwell on my other passions because my biggest passion of all is sitting right here in front of me.

 
At 9:15 PM , Blogger Sharron said...

I doubt that you're in anyway selfish. From what I can tell, you seem like an amazing father!

I feel passion about this change I'm going to make and that link really made me feel good and even more confident that it's the right decision. I've started by making 4 appointments on Thursday to meet with different schools around town.

Great post!

 

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